Currently, in Phulpakhru, Sameer and Tanya’s relationship is going through a slightly harsh phase. Tanya’s parents are insisting her to get married, but she has feelings for Sameer who has his own doubts about marriage. His womanising ways are making him hesitant as is his fear of falling out of love with Tanya after getting hitched. This feeling of not being able to commit to your partner is commonly seen in people. If you are experiencing a similar thing, here’s how you can tackle it.
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1. Go on a trip with your partner
Getting away from the everyday chaos and spending time with your partner might seem like a perfect thing to do. You can talk to each other more openly and lay down your thoughts better. Try to make dinner for them in a peaceful atmosphere as you’ll remember the first time you fell in love with them.
2. Document your feelings
Writing down your feelings will help you get things into perspective. Pen down your concerns and the outside factors that are making you have cold feet. You can start by listing the positives and negatives about your relationship and your partner. After seeing these things listed on a paper, you can narrow down the exact issue and question yourself.
3. Question yourself
Speaking of questioning yourself, you can start with how well do your wavelengths match! During this, you can have conversations with couples who have made their relationship work through the thick and thin. If what your share with your partner is worth it, do all that you can to not let it go.
4. Talk to your friend/therapist
Sometimes, there is nothing like talking to your friends who have seen your relationship blossom. Don’t hesitate to ask your friends and trusted people their view on this relationship. Their support and a third person perspective will help you get a better knowledge of your relationship. Similarly, be open-minded to seek counsel from therapists.
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