Confused About Your Relationship Like Deva-Monica? These 5 Points Will Provide Clarity

Here are some things that will help you in clearing your mind if you are going through a confusing relationship like Doctor Don's Deva and Monica.

Deva and Monica from Doctor Don

Zee Yuva’s romantic comedy-drama Doctor Don has gained popularity in a very short span of time. The show starring Devdutt Nage and Shweta Shinde has a unique and refreshing plotline that has created a special place in the hearts of viewers. Till now we have seen how the dreadful don Deva manages to get admission in a medical college to get into his daughter’s good books. She breaks all ties with him after learning about his involvement with the underworld. For his daughter’s happiness, Deva immediately stops his business and decides to change for good. However, at college, his life takes a turn when he falls in love with Dr. Monica, the dean. Earlier, Monica despised Deva for his rowdiness but the latter eventually won her heart with his helpful and caring nature. However, Deva and Monica aren’t ready to take their relationship ahead as they still are confused about each other. Sometimes they think they are just good friends and other times they think they are made for each other. This situation is very common among couples. They often mistake their friendship for a relationship and eventually lose one another. If you are also going through a similar situation, just take a deep breath and sit back! Here are a few things that will help you get out of your confusing relationship. Read on!

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1. Just listen to your heart

Deva from Doctor Don
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Sometimes, our heart knows exactly what we want and when it comes to relationships we always know if our partner is the correct match or not. Deep down, we all have an image of our idle partner but we tend to get distracted while chasing our attractions, get blinded by our own thoughts, and finally, in all this, we ignore our hearts. Whenever you find yourself in a dilemma, just give yourself some time and talk to your heart and we are very sure you’ll see a clear picture of what you exactly want from a relationship.

2. Give your relationship some time

Deva and monica from Doctor Don
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In the initial stages of any relationship, we are very unsure if we are doing the right thing or if the opposite party is an idle partner. If you’re are going through all this, have patience. Spend some time together as you do not want to turn a premature commitment into a lifelong relationship if you’re unsure about how you feel. For any relationship to sustain it is very important for the couple to let things happen at their own pace, especially if they are experiencing mixed feelings.

3. Share your feelings with your partner

Monica and Deva from Doctor Don
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Well, we know this takes lots of guts and so everyone just hates to have this conversation. This situation obviously isn’t funny but it’s very crucial, as it will either make or break your relationship. If you are confused about your feelings, all you need to do is sit down and talk about it with your partner. You never know, they may be going through a similar situation. This will help couples spot the holes in their relationship and try their best to fill them up together!

4. Take a break, if necessary
Deva and monica from Doctor Don
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After trying out everything, if you still cannot figure out how you feel about your partner, maybe its time to take a break for a while. You may both need some time to rejuvenate yourself by taking up a hobby or just focusing on work. Eventually, you may miss your partner and want to rekindle the romance. If you decide to take a break, you need to plan it mutually or else it may create life long cracks. Remember Ross and Rachel’s break from Friends? You definitely don’t want that to happen with you, right?
5.  Don’t stay in a confused state for long
Monica and Deva from Doctor Don
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We understand that it’s going to take some time for you to understand your feelings and set your priorities straight. However, you should not take too long to make your decision. If you’re feeling confused about your relationship, you need to sit alone and analyse why are you confused and then you either try to fix those problems with your partner or just end the relationship. It makes no sense to keep dragging your partner along with your confused thoughts.
How would you deal with your relationship if you were in Deva’s place? Let us know in the comments below!
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