Finally, our wait is over. The good days are beginning in Phulpakhru as Sameer and Tanya are putting aside their difference. Seeing them separate due to misunderstandings was one of the hardest things we had to witness. Tanya, especially, broke completely after their breakup. She was finding it hard to get over Sameer. We understood the relationship she shared with him was special, but there were other reasons to not be able to move on to a better future. Want to why Tanya found it hard to forget Sameer? We have listed the pointers below.
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1. There was no proper closure
As humans, we find it hard to let go of things that didn’t wrap up properly. Take, for example, what if your favourite TV show, Phulpakhru, stop playing from tomorrow onwards? It would be difficult for you to understand its absence as you didn’t see it coming. Similarly, Sameer and Tanya’s break up was sudden and fast for anyone to be able to comprehend it.
2. Your mind keeps thinking about the same topic
All of us keep overthinking consciously and subconsciously. This overthinking especially aggravates when you keep rewinding every minute detail of your relationship. A part of you wants to do things differently as you preoccupy yourself with the ‘What ifs?’ But, during this time, you have to remind yourself that you won’t ever be able to grow unless you close the old boxes.
3. Blaming yourself for the breakup
When Sameer wasn’t around, it was easy for Tanya to blame herself for the separation. This is why she even attempted suicide. Sometimes the feeling that you weren’t enough in this relationship slowly creeps in. This makes your mind obsess over the situation by putting the blame on yourself.
4. We all love being loved
We love the attention and the love that we get from our closed ones. This yearning for them doesn’t stop when the relationship gets over. Your mind craves that person’s affection the same way it craves chocolate. Sadly, along with that person sometimes that positive connection is taken away from you.
5. You are afraid of facing the world without them in it
Tanya and Sameer were always a package deal. Wherever Tanya went Sameer followed but, the equation doesn’t feel complete to her without him in it. We love to have someone who will listen to our ranting and still be there. It can get unbearable to process their absence.
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